: Some reviewers find the book repetitive or criticize its rigid focus on a gender binary, noting a lack of discussion regarding transgender experiences. If you'd like to explore this topic further, I can provide:
: The book points out that women can also reinforce patriarchal norms—for instance, by demanding their sons "be men" or feeling uneasy when their male partners show vulnerability.
: Transformation starts with acknowledging the trauma caused by being told "real men" don't feel or cry.
: From childhood, boys are often punished for vulnerability. This results in "emotional numbness," leading to isolation and an inability to form healthy, intimate relationships.