McMillan argues that many women use defensiveness or anger as a shield.
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Focus on what you need (character, reliability, kindness) rather than what you think you should have. McMillan argues that many women use defensiveness or
Marriage is about giving. You must be willing to "go first" in showing care and support without immediate reciprocation. and vulnerability—is a position of strength
McMillan’s "The person you really need to marry" provides the philosophical foundation for this guide—marrying yourself first.